How to give a man the best hand-job of his life?
“Trust a pro escort girl; I know how to get a man out of hiding. When I was younger, hand-jobs were something I did to my boyfriends before having sex with them! ” – our escort girls tell us. I started with my hand in the car or the hallway outside the door before saying goodbye for the night, or even on the beach, under the stars, huddled under a blanket. »Hand-jobs were something I did to a guy before I had penetrative sex. Hand-jobs were a means to an end – not the end.
These hand-jobs almost always happened while we were both still clothed. Maybe my shirt was unbuttoned, and my bra had come off. But my jeans were still on. Just like the fly of his pants might have been unbuttoned, but he still had his underwear on. I had gone past the hem of his boxer shorts dug into the warm, wet recesses of his underwear to find his hard cock. Spitting on my hand, I used my saliva to pull him through. He was cumming on my palm, leaving it wet with his cum. But I was wondering where to wipe it! Hand-jobs were like that – always a mystery in a way.
These are the hand-jobs I did before becoming an escort.
After becoming an escort girl and started working with this popular Escort Agency, I trained in the art of hand-jobs. I have become a hand-job expert in the truest sense of the word. Here are some of my most “professional” tips that I use to give a man the best hand-job he’s ever had. Don’t forget the testicles. One of the first things I learned as a sex worker was that men like to have their balls fondled when they masturbate.
No matter what I do, almost all men seem to want some stimulation to their sacks when getting a hand-job. A client of mine likes me to scratch his scrotum while breaking his cock. Another likes me to squeeze his balls while he ejaculates. So don’t forget the balls while you jerk him off.
For a good hand-job, eye contact is essential.
Getting a jerk off can be as intimate as penetrative sex if you look him in the eye when you do it. I always look my client in the eye when I caress his penis. Your facial expression is extremely important. I like to smile when teasing a man’s cock. Sometimes I lick my lips and then let a long stream of saliva flow from my mouth. I catch it dramatically in my palm and then apply it to my client’s cock. It drives him crazy when you show him you like it.
For a hand-job, consider lube.
Speaking of which, lube is essential – but the question is which lube. I have found from experience that every man prefers a different type of lube. Each form of lubrication provides a different experience, including when using your saliva. As a professional, I always have some on hand. And then, of course, there’s the lube made for the purpose of making love.
And even then, the one you choose may feel different. It all comes down to viscosity. Some lubricants are more viscous than others. This means that they dry out and get “thicker” with a lot of friction. Even the highest quality synthetic lube can get overly vicious during a long wank. That’s why I recommend having your lube(s) of choice on hand for long jerk-off experiences.
Hand-job without lube: dry
Even after realizing the need for a good lube for a better hand-job, it might seem odd to say that you can also have a great hand-job without any lube.
To do this, I recommend lightly stroking the man’s cock. This way, you can “stroke” it all the way instead of stroking it “hard.” If you want to stroke his cock harder, you’ll need some lube. However, I have a client who likes me to tickle the dry skin of his penis lightly, and that’s how he likes my gestures. I never use a drop of lube on him. At least you could try this at the start of any jerk-off session to see if your client likes it.
Right hand only?
My client demands that I stroke his cock only with my right hand. I’m right-handed, and it’s supposed to be better for him. I get it – I’m more skilled with my right hand. My right arm is also more robust. I do not doubt that I could do a better hand-job with my right hand. However, since I’m a sworn explorer, I think using the hand you don’t usually write with to do a hand-job can also provide a different feeling and experience. Variety is the spice of life, after all.
An intense hand-job is…intense.
I have another client who asks me to jerk his cock as hard as possible. This means he wants me to hold his phallus and stroke it with the ferocity of a jackhammer. Yes, it gets tiring, and I charge extra for it. But for this particular client, intensely jerking him off is incredibly satisfying for him. That’s why I suggest experimenting with intensity during a hand-job. Some guys like it soft, and some like it more intense. You won’t know until you try both.
Just caress the glans
I have a client who swears by the tip of his cock, his glans. He likes it when I only caress the tip of his penis with my index finger, making circles. For this particular client, I don’t even need to use any lube because his penis creates enough lubrication on its own. I like to give him a taste of the liquid dripping from his penis, wetting my finger with it before plunging it into his mouth. He loves it.
Experiment with positions.
As varied as the ways to give a hand-job are, the positions you can use to do it are also varied. I have clients who like to kneel before me while I masturbate their cocks. Another client likes to lay on the floor while I play with his penis, me sitting next to him so I can look him in the eye when he cums. Of course, one of my favorite positions is to sit on a man’s face while I masturbate his penis, facing his cock, the 69. While I’m giving him a hand-job, he makes me cum with his mouth. It’s a win-win situation for both of us, which is the point of the wank.
The best hand-jobs are pleasurable for both partners.
But the best of men returns the favor by making his lover cum once she’s finished pleasuring him. By the way, if women are reading this article, I also advise you to read forward and find out how to become an escort girl!
Becoming an escort girl: 12 indispensable tips to start the job of escort girl
It is a job that presents a lot of interest and can bring in a lot—combining both the psychological and sexual sides; however, rules to follow to see your escort career succeed in giving you all the happiness that a job you like can bring you. Read these few essential tips if you are considering getting into escorting!
1. Illegal Activity in Germany
We are in Germany, and unfortunately, you will probably go illegal and will have to take some precautions. I advise you for more security to set your first appointment in a public place, a bar around a coffee to get to know your client better, to ensure his real expectations. There are, of course, platforms on which you can post an ad.
2. An escort must separate her work from her private life
Think about your privacy and choose a working name nickname – don’t use your real name unless you want everyone to know your personal affairs to know your address. Decide whether you want to use photos showing your face or other identifying information. If not, don’t give them to anyone – once they’re released, you lose all control over what happens to them. If you
opt for a website, do not register your domain name without adding a privacy option; otherwise, your name and address will be accessible to everyone via a simple search. If someone else records it for you, make sure you prove that it is yours.
3. Buy a cheap phone for your interactions with customers
An entry-level phone with a prepaid card, so you don’t have to give out your home number or worry about answering work calls at inconvenient times. You can also destroy the SIM card whenever you decide to stop working.
4. First of all, an escort must be paid
This means you need to get the money from the customers before anything sexual happens. It would help if you never forgot this basic rule to avoid any scam from an unscrupulous customer.
5. Don’t hand over large sums of money to “friends.”
Some people promise you the moon in exchange for regular small sums of money. The adult business is seen as an easy way to get yourself into a lot of trouble: stick to established and recommended service providers (photographers, web designers, escort directories, etc.) and ask for references and quotes (for running costs as well), just as you would if you were having construction work done on your home. Don’t forget that you must manage your activity like a real job.
6. An escort should think about her health
Most escort bookings involve having sex with men, so consider your sexual health. We strongly recommend using condoms whenever you have sex with clients, but will you also be using another form of contraception? Buy branded condoms and make sure you don’t run out – you don’t want to have to stop at a reservation to get more or hope that the ones a customer has supplied are okay. Different escorts have preferences for condoms – try several kinds, including non-latex ones. Have a few small and tremendous condoms handy, in case you have a clamp.
7. Again, get tested regularly
Make an appointment at a local sexual health clinic and ask for the hepatitis B vaccine, given to people working in human services, such as paramedics, etc. The service must be confidential. Explain to them what you do for a living to advise you accordingly, but don’t give your real name if you don’t feel comfortable doing so – you will need to give correct contact details, even if you have a problem. Remember the name you use when booking your next appointment! If you ever contact your clients’ feces, tell them, and they will also give you the hepatitis A vaccine.
8. Consider your emotional health.
Decide on your limits and stick to them. If you don’t want to give fellatio without a condom or have anal sex, for example, don’t do it, no matter who tells you that “everyone does it,” that’s not true anyway.
9. An escort should know what she wants and what she doesn’t want
Like a professional escort, plan to revisit your goals, so you don’t find yourself bitter about doing and hating such a personal job – think about life beyond escorting. How long do you want to exercise?
10. Network with other escorts if possible
Browse the forums and try to meet escorts in your area or not. They will help you if you have a problem and advise you without judging you. It always feels good to talk to someone about your work.
11. Don’t trust too quickly
Know that not everyone is friendly. As a new escort girl, you are considered fresh meat by various predators.
12. If in doubt, ask.
Even if the question seems elementary or silly to you, as they say, the only dumb questions are the ones you don’t ask. Adapted forums are safe environments to ask all kinds of questions that will be answered by people who have participated and have done so. None of us are experts in everything; all advice should be tailored to your situation and treated as such, as advice and not gospel – it’s your body, your mind, your business, and it’s yours. You have to control it.